Drafting-A Team Effort

Now on to my favorite part: drafting! After you have looked over the ideas I have sent your way and made sure to incorporate your thoughts, I start writing! One of the many questions in my questionnaire is what tone you would like for the ceremony and I take this very seriously. Some people want a funny tone, others want something a little more serious. Combining your choice for tone as well as the ceremony ideas we've decided on, I write your ceremony to fit your needs.

But to me it's not just about writing something and calling that the end of the process. I believe fully that we are a team and that you have the final say in your ceremony. It is not uncommon for me to write something in a ceremony only for a couple to decide they like it worded differently or taken out all together! Don't worry! It doesn't hurt my feelings one bit! I'm working with you to make certain that the ceremony created for your big day is meaningful and special. It's all about you!

After I have drafted the ceremony, I send the copy for you to look over. This is where we really do become a team. As you look over your draft, I ask that you make notes in it where you would like elements added, removed, or altered. When you've done that, you send it my way and I fix it up for you! We might do this once, or even 15 times depending on what you choose, but by the end of the process I want you to be happy with what we have come up with together.

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